One lady told me that when praying to Allah or at the mosque, you are not allowed to wear jeans. So my question is if I go to the mosque to pray, what should I wear? Can I wear loosefitting jeans, a loose fitting longsleeve shirt and a hijab? Is that fine?

Like these jeans and this shirt, with the top of the shirt covered with a hijab like this?

Is that ok for the mosque?

Salamu alaikum sister!

When you go to the mosque, you must not wear clothing that reveals the form or shape of your body. While each piece you showed me individually could work, together they don’t seem to be modest enough to be worn to a mosque. You can wear a long spring jacket with jeans so that they cover your behind/thighs, or you can wear a loose skirt coupled with a long shirt. The hijab you showed me is perfectly fine as long as it doesn’t reveal skin from your neck or bits of your hair while you’re moving around during prayer. Make sure it stays secure! For me personally, when I go to the mosque I just wear the traditional prayer clothes that we use at home (the skirt you can pull over pants and the long head piece that covers your arms and back).. I find it a lot easier to pull that on so I don’t have to worry about how I look or if my shirt is going to go up my back when I bend down during prayer.

Remember, the mosque is a place for worship, not for making a fashion statement! Your Muslim brothers and sisters who are there for the right reasons will not be paying attention to what you’re wearing because they’ll be too busy paying attention to their prayers insha’Allah :)

These are just suggestions, I hope you can make them work for you!

Wa alaikum asalam.

Ablution (Wudhu)

1. Talking while performing of ablution. It is known that the focus during a prayer depends on the intensity with which wudhu is performed. If you are able to clear your mind of other thoughts and distractions while you are performing wudhu, you will be able to clear them from your mind while praying as well.
2. Running the faucet dry.   There is a tendency to let the water flow in our sinks while we take our time performing the cleansing process.  It is important not to waste Allah’s gift of water, for Islam has taught us to be gentle to ourselves, each other, animals, and the earth.
3. Forgetting to remove make-up.  While we are performing ablution, water is to reach every part of allotted areas with only the exception of physical inability.  If it is obscured by foundation or nail polish, the ablution becomes invalid.  We should take great care in removing everything from our skin and nails so that we purify ourselves according to the teachings of the Prophet .

Prayer (salaat)

1. Wearing skin-tight clothing. We are to approach Allah in the best of physical conditions – clean clothes and clean body.  Be equally careful to be modest in your dress when you approach the prayer mat:  that your shirt is not too short, your pants are not too tight, and your hijab covers your chest.  Modesty is loved by Allah and it is best to maintain it especially in an act of worship.  I find it easier to assign a certain piece of clothing, as in an abaya or a long shirt, to make sure there will be proper coverage without me being distracted and ruining my prayer.
2. Failing to remove pictures. While you might want to debate on whether it is okay in Islam to have pictures displayed in your rooms, there is no point of discussion on the fact that pictures of humans, animals, or insects should not be present in your area of prayer.  The rule of thumb is to make sure that within 180 degrees of you, there is no picture in sight.  If you have a frame or two lying around, simply turn it over so that the face is not showing and there is no threat of jeopardizing your prayer.
3. Just breathe. I cannot say it enough times:  Slow down, sisters! Take your time and pronounce every word as you are praying and make sure the words are not strung together with barely enough time to breath.  Furthermore, do not find yourself as a puppet, bending up and down in a swift motion while clutching your knees and then falling on the floor equally fast for prostration.  Instead, follow each movement while understanding its significance, paying special attention to rukuh (when you clutch your knees) and sajadah (when you prostrate) because, as a hadith states, the longer you stay in these positions, the greater the display of your obedience to Allah and therefore the greater the award.

Sadly, Ramadan is spiraling to an end. It’s important that we press the breaks and try to make the most out of these last few blessed moments. Take your eyes off the clock and place them in the Qur’an! Keep saying ithkar and pray all your voluntary prayers. Keep yourself in good company that reminds you of Allah . Pray taraweeh! In fact, take a bag of candy with you to the mosque and give everyone a piece during the break. Help your brother or sister break their fast. Put the Qur’an on your iPod and listen to it 24/7. Read some hadith. In these last hours of Ramadan, why not memorize a new chapter of the Qur’an, or even just those few verses that you had trouble remembering before? Be as kind as possible to everyone around you and ask your parents for their forgiveness. Pray for Prophet Muhammad . Keep Allah on your mind every second!

Can think of a few more useful ways to spend the last days of Ramadan? Leave them in the comments!